Thursday, January 15, 2009

*word to the mothers!*

I wish I had written this. This lady nails motherhood on the head-- and when I am talking nails it, I am talking one of those hits with the hammer where you hit it in and it goes in just right and you are like, "ah yeah, that was a good one." You know the kind. Funny, I have a memory of being a teacher and driving from one job to the next... at the time I was teaching 160 kids, had to prepare 5 different class preps, teach 7 classes a day at two different middle schools including: journalism, 8th grade honors English, 7th grade honors english, 7th grade regular English and 8th grade reading. So I was driving between the schools during my lunch time and I saw a lady pushing a stroller. At that moment, I decided to "quit" my teaching job and start "trying". ( I really hate that phrase, BTW. Don't know why, it just sounds funny to me and rubs me the wrong way. "trying". ugh. JUST DO IT. no pun intended) I remember thinking..."ohhh, it'd be so nice to be a mom... I could catch up on all the extra reading I want to do, we could go on walks, I'd have no schedule, I can stay home and never get dressed again..." Well, hands down, motherhood is harder than anything those middleschoolers every threw at me... including the F-word, which coincidentally I threw back at the kid, but that's another story. And, just to make myself clear, I don't have any friends that I feel are as idiotic as the person who wrote in to Carolyn. My friends without kids are all very "with" it and probably understand parenthood better than I do most the time. I just liked the way Carolyn nailed the lady and her description of S.A.H.M's. (Super Awesome Hot Moms or Stay at home moms- whichever applies. Depends on the day for me.)

Enjoy!


7 comments:

Naomi said...

Tacoma=ridiculous.

Maybe it's time for her to get new friends. Or her friends to give HER the boot.

Kristi said...

I love it! I remember thinking the same thing on my mish. Oh, when I am a Mom it will be so much easier. Ha! That was a cakewalk;)

Kristi said...

BTW my hubby is the same way about the "trying" thing. He is always like,"what - have they been doing it wrong?" LOL! It is certainly a weird word we have associated with wanteing to get pregnant!

Judy Prestwich said...

Having had 6 children I understand what the author is saying. When you kids were small, I was either stuck at home or having to endure near total chaos outside the home. Very stressful. When you got older it was more of a management job... take everyone everywhere or make sure the car was available. Managing emotional traumas and hoping that you were doing the right thing when you weren't at home. Now it's pretty quiet. I miss you and it, until the grandkids come to visit and I think, "oh, yeah." My hat's off to you young mothers.

Crystal said...

If/when Tacoma has children, she will be mortified she ever wrote that letter.

Thomas Family said...

You need to post this on the mommy blog. So good.

Lillian said...

I think I know why her friend never calls her. Not only does she have no idea what her friend is going through, but she's very insensitive about it. I don't know that I could keep a friend like that around! Being a mom is a lot of work!! It's by far the hardest thing I've ever done.